
Six years ago next week I met Valeria, my little sister, for the very first time.
I remember bringing her a little stuffed animal and we sat in her dinning room coloring.
She was as excited to meet me (standing by the front door waiting for my arrival), as I was her. That day I think I heard her say just a few words, I was a little nervous that she would never open up to me. Not sure why I ever worried about that, because the girl can talk. :)

What's surprised me most about our relationship is how much I grew as her big sister.
She has kept me on my toes and prepared me for my most important role, mother.
Not because I act as her mother, far from that, but because I know that she is watching what I say and do. As she grows up and decides who she will or will not model, I want to make sure that anything she pulls from me is positive. Despite all the adversity that she faces in her life, she has turned out to be such a beautiful, smart, and sweet young lady.
I am so proud of her.

Today we celebrated her 12th birthday at Stevie B’s Pizza. It was smaller than her usual parities, but filled with just as much fun. I had a blast designating myself as the birthday party coordinator. Tim would call me the birthday party Nazi, but why get caught up in the details. ANYWAY……we had a great time and I enjoyed getting to know her family a little bit better.